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Today August 6th 2007, I was on my way back home from teku, I saw few kids near Machali Paati smoking, that scene really made me stop my bike. I was watching their activities. It was really amazing to watch them smoking that way. It seems like they have been introduce to smoking habit for long time. I could not see any fear in their face, they looked so relaxed. They were in their own world, having fun with each other making fun of each others, joking and laughing, and giving a pose for the camera while they continued to smoke.

Boys Giving Pose While They Smoking

Boys giving pose while they smoking

When my camera focused on them, they saw me and they were more excited to get captured by my camera. They started giving different pose and started to smoke in different style, same time one of the guy spoke out, “dai (brother in nepali), will you give us some money if we allow you to take more of our picture”. I said ok, so they ran towards me and started asking me to give them some money.
Who is to blame for their such actions?

Young boys posing for the camera while they smoke

Young boys posing for the camera while they smoke

At first I thought they were street children, I have seen such street children smoking from the used cigarette which people throw away, but the shocking part was that all these boys had new cigarette stick and it seems that they just lit the cigarette. The way they were dressed didn’t look like if they were street child. I asked them what they will do with the money I give them; they simply replied that they will eat something. I crossed questioned them, aren’t you going to buy new cigarette from that money, they just stayed silent. Among them, one of the guys said just give me and I don’t smoke too, and other three boys said, they don’t lie and try to be innocent in front of him.


I wanted to know more about them; I asked them what they do. The reply was so simple we study in school. I just could not hold my emotions, and felt like slapping them but I did not take that step. My second question to them was how old are you? They said as if they are adults, in a proud voice 12, 14, 12, 13. I asked them in which grade do they study, 3 of them were in grade 3 and 1 on grade 4. I just felt sorry for them, for their parents and their school teachers. My final question to them was who taught them to smoke and they simply said “guys who stays there”, that mean they just learn from watching elder boys smoking. I said to them that their picture will be published in newspaper. They were so excited and asked me when, I said tomorrow. Later I did not gave them any money, I felt they might miss use it and buy some more cigarette. I felt like buy them some biscuits by myself and give and ask them to quit smoking, but my heart did not give me that permission. I said to myself that they were not going to quit smoking from my words; they need a proper guidance from their family, teacher and the local people from where they belong to.

Here are few questions that arise from this incident.

  1. Who is to be blamed for introducing cigarette to these boys?
  2. If they have bought from shop, why did the shopkeeper sold them that cigarette?
  3. If they have brought from home then why their elder were so careless?
  4. Why don’t the government implement new policy to control and monitor underage children and keep them away from smoke and alcohol?
  5. Why don’t the school teachers, parents and elders who have a habit to smoke stop smoking in front of these children?
  6. Why there is no proper health awareness class in school which makes these boys think what is good and bad for them?
  7. Today, seeing at their elders smoking they too started to smoke. Won’t they start taking drugs if they come across to such addicted people? What will be their future after that?

When I was in school, on non-smoking day each year our school used to have different programs for the awareness. I don’t know how many of my friends did not smoke after such awareness programs but I have never smoked till now because it was the effect on me from my participation on such awareness programs. I was and I am aware of the long term effect of smoking.

SMOKING IS INJURIOUS TO HEALTH, so quit smoking.

8 Responses to “Who is responsible for these kids’ bad habits?”

  1. sudhi Says:

    hey u lied one thing here, you were going to see someone when u saw these boys ……. hahaha anyway, just enjoy life saathi. 🙂

  2. nepaliblogger Says:


    no:

    SMOKING IS INJURIOUS TO HEALTH

    it is:

    smoking is injurious to health

  3. iamwhatiam Says:


    This is me and i am what i am

    lage raho bachhon

    this is a free country and one should be able to do what one desire

    so lets all smoke

  4. exsmoker Says:


    Hello Everyone,
    My wife was finally able to kick the habit before she got pregnant with our now first born beautiful baby gilr, so I tought I’ll share the resource that she has used to help her quit the smoking habit with as many people as I can.
    She was a heavy smoker for about ten years and just a couple of weeks after finding out about the program that I have researched online, she was able to quit smoking permanently and now can’t stop telling people about how she had kicked the habit for good.
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  6. exsmoker Says:


    Hello All,

    I was reading around some of the posts here and I found interesting things that you guys talk about, I just made a blog about quitting smoking resources and ideas that you might want to check out.
    If someone is interested in this topic just go to; http://endthehabitnow.blogspot.com and let me know what you think.
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  7. Wahoo Says:


    Thank you for sharing!

  8. navneet Says:


    we know that smoking is injurious to health but we should stop doing all these things otherwise small children will learn this only

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